It is a human tendency to see vices of others and forget our own. However, we remember only our virtues. Satguru Ram Singh Ji has written in his Rahatnaama " haar baakat aapni bhalaai chupaan de karni." (Always try to hide your virtues).

Further, Satguru Ji has written for forgiveness and patience, " khemma theeraj rakhnee, khemma theeraj rakhne baalyea de Guru ang-sang hai." (Guru Ji is always with the person who forgives and has patience).