It is a human tendency to see vices of others and forget our own. However, we remember only our virtues. Satguru Ram Singh Ji has written in his Rahatnaama " haar baakat aapni bhalaai chupaan de karni." (Always try to hide your virtues).
Further, Satguru Ji has written for forgiveness and patience, " khemma theeraj rakhnee, khemma theeraj rakhne baalyea de Guru ang-sang hai." (Guru Ji is always with the person who forgives and has patience).
Wake up early in the morning & actively take bath (sanekeshi) followed by nam simran & recitation of Gurbani. All make whole hearted effort to devote most of the time to meditation (nam simran). While you perform your daily vocational activities such as business or profession, you should do naam simran. With naam simran you will attain spiritual energy.